It hurts so much. When someone you loved so much just disappear from your life. That day will come for everybody. One day, the guy of your life will break your heart to pieces and never come back. It sounds awful but you probably didn’t do anything wrong. It’s just that he don’t care anymore. There’s two options. 1. He was cheating on you. Like not even cheating, he just found someone else. Or 2. He doesn’t have any feelings for you anymore. Or number 3. He’s just a big jerk. And when you find a guy who you think is right for you, think about it one last time before you really start loving him. Are you worth it? Are you ready to fight for him? That’s the question. Your heart will get broken so many times. You’ll meet new assholes all the time even though you don’t know that when you actually start to talk to them at the first time. But when you two spend more time together you’ll figure out that he’s a jerk. Okay I said it wrong now because everything is not true in that sentence. But it will happen to many of you.
Now I’ll tell you a story. It’s about what happened to me. I met a guy. I started to talk to him. And we really started to like each other. He called me cute words like ”baby girl” and ”babe”. I was wondering why he actually liked me. Because I didn’t do anything special at all. But well I’ll make it short. After a while he said ”Do you wanna be together with me?” I said ”yes”. I didn’t think about it at all. I just said yes. I was just very happy at the moment, so I didn’t care a lot. We talked like a love couple in a few days and then... Something happened. He stopped talking to me. So I texted him and said ”Where are you?”. I knew that he had seen the message but he just didn’t reply. I felt sad so I blocked him. Then the next day I got a message from him. It said ”I’m so sorry, I was busy”. Then I felt like shit. Because of two reasons. 1. I knew he saw my message, and 2. He lied. I knew that he wasn’t busy. So I decided to tell him what I really thought about him. He just replied with smileys and stuff like that so I decided to block him again. Until he texted me back. But he never did. So I was spending hours on a guy who didn’t even liked me or wanted me. He had someone else when he was talking to me. He had a girlfriend, and when they broke up. He just wanted me to be there and say ”I love you” to him every night before he went to bed. I could feel that he broke up with her even though he didn’t tell me anything. The only thing he did was to broke my heart. So girls out there, before you do too much. Think about it. Talk to your friends and family. They’ll help you.
There’s actually another case too. And it’s a very important thing. It’s about those guys who just want your body. What will they do with the pics? Upload them on porn sites? Ya probably. So girls. Think with your heart. Not your body. This never happened to me. But It actually happened to a friend of mine. She didn’t listen to me, I told her that it could be very dangerous. She didn’t listen. So if this happen to you. There’s nothing wrong with you. You just feel uncomfortable and probably depressed. And if you don’t wanna talk to your parents, you can talk to a counselor. They will help you and you’ll understand and your life will get so much better if you stop sending those pics.
And then they are those guys who’s perfect. Not on the outside. On the inside. The guys who actually loves their girlfriend for who she is. The guys who wouldn’t cheat on her for anything in the whole world. Girls, don’t think too much about the about the appearance.Think about the personality. What does he say to you? Probably the most adorable things you’ve never heard before. Don’t lose that guy for a jerk. It’s not worth it. Promise. If you are lucky and find that perfect guy I’d be really happy for you. So be careful. If someone break your heart, remember that you actually just have a broken heart. Think about the kids in your age in other countries who doesn’t have food, water or a place to sleep. Think about their problems compared to yours. Their problems is about how to survive. And your problem is about a guy. A jerk. He’s not even worth it. And when he break your heart, don’t do the same to him. Just show him that you’re a better person than him. And remember you’re beautiful and perfect just the way you are. Never forget that.
By: Lova Hammer
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